Part Two
August 14, 2010 –
So, what a dilemma. I know I am meant to do it, always have but circumstances (or the universe; read The Secret :) may have had some input into the chain of events that led me to where I was, sitting in my lovely garden pondering what I should do; and if indeed I did go down the path that was drawing me, how on earth would I do it?
Do you think some ladies are born to it? I am not talking (as I said before) of promiscuous people, no not nymphomaniacs, although I am sure quite a few ladies would like you to believe that ;) and I know there are more than a few fellas who would be horrified to think that it’s not quite the case – sorry guys.
The truth for me is that I am neither, but I am not inhibited. I also believe that I am not the marrying kind. I would never be unfaithful but I like, no I love my independence too much and I like the best in men. I think that this is the thread that runs through us ladies. Independence. That and getting a thrill from turning you on, oh and being glamourous. Oh quite a few things then :)
When I retire, and I will one day, but not completely mon cher ;) You can still ask me the question ‘What turns you on Rhia?’ and the answer will still be the same. ‘I get turned on by turning you on’ I know, I know. It’s sounds like a pathetic get out clause. But I swear it is true. It is the main thing that turns me on, actually it is the thing – is that sad?
Now I could go out and find a fella and turn him on for the next, oh I dont know, 5 years? But thats not enough. Im sorry to sound so difficult, but here is where I get to the nitty gritty.
I (we) only ever see men on their best behaviour. (Well sometimes you get the odd loon email or a fool on a forum, but I dont actually see them, perish the thought) When a guy visits me, he is always on his best behaviour, he is lovely and adorable and charming and witty and very sexy. Exactly like a first date. This makes me sound shallow I know. But I like them, first dates, or second or thirds :) (I am talking here of no dirty sock washing, getting complacent, big rows, witholding sex, not taking an interest, not turning up because he had a better offer from his friends at the wine bar, etc etc; well, you know) I get to meet very interesting fellas and they are interesting because of their varied opinions, interests, outlooks and backgrounds, and most of all – if I am outstandingly honest, because they too are interested in me.
And yes, the fellas who come to see me give me their undivided attention and lust and appreciation for the time we are together. They value me. I kind of like that and it is as sexy as hell.
The downside to all of this, of course is that I will never marry or be in a properly defined relationship and the longer you are in this profession, the harder it gets to ‘settle down’. Bear that in mind ladies if you decide to do this.
But that sounds tragic and its not, well not for me. I made a very (very) conscious decision a while ago (long before I started embarking on this profession) - to not have a ‘normal’ life . Its not for me and never will be; the mundane bores me. Gosh, and I havent even got to the second part of the story yet!
Hold on, stay tuned – again x
PS I like the pic, it reminds me of when I was a gymnast ;) Do you like it?





2 Responses to “Part Two”
Rhia … great blog .. can’t wait for the next installment .. xx James
By James on Aug 15, 2010
Thanks James, its always good to get comments; sometimes you think you are talking into the ether :) Having a stupendous weekend I hope? xx
By Rhia Charles on Aug 15, 2010