Intuition and Threats
July 2, 2010 –Oh and after me telling you I dont get any nonsense anymore too! I had an email recently from a gent (and I use that term very loosely :) who said he was 38, after speaking to him on the phone, he certainly did not sound that age, he sounded very, very young. No big deal you say but as you know I am a little particular about who I see and of what age. Did you know that some fellas lie about their age to slip under the net? I dont know why they bother really, just find another lady who is happy to see them surely?
All ladies in this business will be aware of our in-built antenae, our female intuition is probably honed a fair bit more than your average woman. So, anyway, I speak to this particular fella and then get some odd emails about having booked a table for after 10pm and things like that. I checked, the restaurant does not accept bookings that late. A few other things rang some alarm bells, things didnt ring true, he sounded at worst a timewaster and at best, well very immature; something was definitely not right about him, so I thought ‘Do you know what, I dont want to see this guy’ So right away, I email him and tell him that Im perhaps not the lady for him, a good few days before the meeting. My safety and well-being has to be paramount.
I get an email this evening, days later, threatening me with a bad review on Captain69 even though he hasnt even seen me. I of course told him to do what he may, I dont respond to petty threats like that. What a silly boy. Now with that in mind, would you say that is the behaviour of a 38 year old? Hmm, me neither.
Now, as you can imagine, I am more than relieved that I didnt see this guy and that I cancelled the appointment if indeed it was a genuine appointment; these type of people thrive on thinking you have given them a little attention by actually getting ready for them.
Anyway, I always listen to my intuition, always. The only times I have ignored it in the past, I have regretted it. Unfortunately there are some nasty pieces of work out there, I have had a few contact me over the years, very sick puppies; I just wish they wouldnt get in touch with me, but sometimes a lady’s website lures the deranged like a moth to the flame. Hey ho, it cant be all roses I guess but like I say, I am indeed very happy that we never actually met; can you imagine?
This here blog thing started as a way to express my saucy self. But do you know what? There's more to me than the saucy bits! So herewith you will find all sorts of thoughts, anecdotes, ideas, funny things (lots of them), deep and meaningfuls - a mixture of everything really, just like life. I hope you like it here. I like it here. It's cosier if you are here too so stay a while.
2 Responses to “Intuition and Threats”
What a wanker, sorry you had to deal with that one!
If I were you, though, I might forward that last email (selected snippets of it, so that his intention is still clear) to the site in question just so that, when they see review posted they can just discard it outright, and not waste their time on it… or your time getting it removed.
~Mme X~
By Madame X on Jul 6, 2010
Yes I did that as soon as I received the email from him, thanks Mme X
By Rhia Charles on Jul 6, 2010