Likewise if I choose to wear green, red or black, paint my face, wear killer heels, dress down or up or even, God forbid, become a floozy ;) – thats my choice.  Isnt it?  Yes. What’s brought all this on? I hear you say.  Well, I went to The Criterion Restaurant the other day, its on Picadilly and guess what? That is where the suffragettes used to meet.  What a stylish place to meet, very impressive.

Now then, having said all of the above, and having had 92 years of voting rights and 50 years of sexual revolution (not me personally of course), we still have a dilemma.  I like men (gentlemen) to treat me like a lady.  I like being feminine.  I like to call men ‘gentlemen’ because I can and I want to and there aren’t too many people out there who can stop me doing what I choose to do.

So, what exactly is a ‘lady’?  Well, in my humble opinion, it is someone who has impeccable manners, goes out of her way to make someone feel comfortable, is gracious, charming and kind.  She in addition may be sophisticated, elegant, educated, cultured and well connected, but not necessarily so.  The key, I think ( and please do tell me if you disagree), the key is in these words; respectful, gracious, charming and kind.

If someone thinks that I am worth treating like a lady, it does not mean that I am weak, it does not mean that I need looking after.  It means that they like me enough to look out for me, make my life a little bit more comfortable. Likewise, I like to look after my fellas, in any way that I can.  I like to behave like a lady.

Years of the vile  lad and ladette culture, it seems to me has bred a mindset of total disrespect for themselves and others. and I am not talking soley about teenagers here. I dont tend to go out to bars or clubs – actually never.  Alright,  maybe the odd exquisite champagne bar.  But I had a little experience lately and I also see these things on forums – escort related forums.  Some of these men are so utterly disrespectful of women, no actually, of other human beings and therefore themselves that I do wonder if the age of chivalry is lost forever.  Im not talking about knights and shining armour here, (or should that be amour? ;) Im talking about basic human decency like getting up out of a seat because someone else  either needs it more than you or because you want to brighten someone’s day or even holding a door open for someone (male or female) or even, yes even being kind for the sake of it.

Of course we also have the other side of the coin.  The feminazi who if truth be told are a little bonkers really.  The militant feminists, I think, have never done us any favours.  Its all gone a little bit wrong. Seeing good manners as offensive behaviour is never going to be good or progressive.

Here’s the thing.  If you dont respect yourself, you surely cant expect someone else to respect you.  Likewise, why oh why would you want to spend your life disrespecting other people?  Is that a reflection on your inner self? So maybe this ardent feminism has garnered the totally opposite effect to what was wanted.  Instead of having men respect women as valuable members of society we have a selection of folks who hate each other.

I was on the tube the other day (yes, now I live here in London, I travel on the tube, just until I get my car and driver, of course hehe :)  and an elderly lady and gent got on.  I was sat down and immediately got up to give the lady my seat. Its what you do isnt it?  I never dreamt that she may be offended at that and she wasnt but I have heard tales of you fellas doing that for a lady, any lady and you get told off.  You wont from me, thats for sure.  Now, I am not saying I am Mother Theresa for getting up or anything like that, not better than anyone else and I dont want a medal.  But no-one else was going to do that and when I did it, the guy next to me then stood up to let the man sit down too.  Everyone else looked as though something weird had happened.   There was a very uncomfortable vibe.

What is all this about? and what on earth has that got to do with feminism?  Its more to do with the respect thing really, somewhere along the line, its all got a little bit muddled up.  All of the ladies I know would love guys to be gentlemen again.  Lets bring back Emily and get a movement going – ‘Seats for Women!’ and not just in parliament, or maybe we could sit on your knee? ;)

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There happens to be (what feels like, lately) an army of cheeky so and so’s out there who get off on duping an escort into sending free saucy emails or responding to saucy texts or even answering questions of a saucy nature on the phone whilst pretending to be real clients.  They never have any intention of booking or even sometimes book and then cancel when you dont play the game.  When you challenge them, they reply ‘What I?’  hahaha (uncomfortable and unbelievable  laugh) ‘Oh no, I am not a perv!’.

So when I, personally, get an email constantly asking me to go into great detail about ‘wat i like’.  You can imagine my response cant you?  It not that we are ungenerous with our time and sauciness and I dont think prudity is a name you would care to hang on our well-cared for shoulders but we dont like to waste our generosity or supreme sauciness on such souls.  Oh no.

I understand that  there are perfectly fine and good and skilled ladies out there who for a small bounty will provide such a reciprocatory email or phone or even text service.  I would be loathe to put such a good girl out of business.

Luckily, I rarely get such requests and I am ever so polite when I do, unless they are blatantly crude and then a quick block via phone and email is in order.  But it seems the nicer you are, the harder they try. I have had a few recently and so I have to say this;

Gentlemen, although I am more than flattered by your amorous attentions, I do not and will not discuss what I would like you to do in the boudoir, neither will I go into a blow by blow (pardon the pun :) account of what I will do to you should I get my manicured mitts on your unmentionables.  I think my very comprehensive website will give you more than a few clues of what to expect should we get past the ‘tell me all about it stage’.  Enough said?

Ahhh, I feel better now, its good to talk (unless its free saucy nonsense of course hehehe :)

PS  A huge, massive, stupendous thank you for all the lovely birthday wishes, cards and prezzies.  I had a wonderful week, much love xxx

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When is going dutch appropriate?

Well, I think, obviously with friends, male and female and colleagues of course, family etc etc but an amour?  No I don’t think so.

Call me an old fashioned girl but I like a gentleman to treat me like a lady – a princess if you will.  Insisting on me paying half for a dinner is a tad unromantic isn’t it?  I once got asked if I go dutch and I said ‘Do I look as though I wear clogs?’

Oh don’t get me wrong I am all for women having the right to do, you know, whatever, yadda yadda, yadda.  But I really don’t think it diminishes a girl’s independence and dignity to have a nice fella buy her a prawn cocktail once in a while, do you?

I remember going out for dinner with a whole bunch of people and one of the guys had brought along his new lady.  After we had had a charming meal and the bill came, he pulled out his calculator and started totting up the price of what she had eaten.  Honestly. He then, to the utter horror of all at the table, showed her the part of the bill she would have to pay.  He never saw her again.

He saw himself as a ‘new man’, a brother in feminism (that’s an oxymoron by the way :), a guy so firmly embracing the feminist ideal he is throttling it to death.  We, on the other hand, the other diners, both male and female, forever saw him as a cheapskate.  Someone with no generosity of spirit and frankly not very classy.

I guess it is pretty common these days, you know to go dutch.  I blame it on HH and the feminatzi gang.  Although they dont seem to mind the rest of us footing the bill for their dining extravaganzas and their husbands’ porn.    I also guess I have been spoilt with my fellas, they always thankfully leave the calculator at home :)

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Now, a little about cancellations.. ..

Here is how I try to organise things.  I take very few bookings these days.  I usually know a week in advance what bookings I have and I plan my other life accordingly – yes I do have one ;)   Now, I know that sometimes life and stuff gets in the way and  plans cannot be fulfilled but I would ask you fellas to remember that I only see a very few special clients and therefore may have turned away several (lots of)  bookings to make sure your special day was honoured.  When I have a cancellation, this means that, as I dont take same day bookings, I will have lost out financially. Could you please, please ensure that you will be able to make your booking?  I have been thinking of ways around this, one being the system I have on my tours in that I have a cancellation list.  But I dont think that would work for normal bookings as gentlemen have usually made other arrangements when I tell them I am not available. So my other option is to have a deposit system, a lot of ladies do.  I already do this for my lunches and my dinners and it works really well.  Hmm I shall consider some more – what do you think?

Now then, I sound like a grumpy old mare just back from my hols dont I?  Im not, I promise.  I am rested, relaxed, tranquil, radiant and chilled.  Ok, ok a little bit OTT on the ‘I had a laid back time’  front, but I did, more than – honestly!

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Hi Rhia,
Having browsed your web site and your blog I found myself formulating
a picture of you. A woman for many a man’s desires, a perfect package.
But what sets you apart from many is your honesty it comes across in
so many ways.

I felt at ease just reading about the various posts you have written.
I myself travel allot mainly in the Far East, during my travels I feel
let down by some of the company I keep. I confess my educational
qualities do not exceed yours, which is probably quite noticeable from
this letter to you.

I pondered for a while thinking you have no chance meeting this lady,
then again why not, how do I let this woman of sophistication know
what I am like. Any cad with a ounce of intelligence can reel off a
script that you would feel content to write back. Rambling here I
feel. There are still many things I would like to experience before I
die, no I am not on my way out, I feel spending a short time with you
would be a experience I feel I would hate to miss.

You are a extremely sexy lady, but with more to give than just sex.
That is what intrigued me the most to spend time listening to a person
who is not only intelligent but is also attractive, angelic, sexy,
divine, stunning, statuesque, finely chiselled, fine-featured,
striking, captivating, fascinating, enchanting, with silk like skin,
they are typical English ways of describing someone of beauty. Has
anyone said to you on your travels that the flowers should close up in
your presence because they are ashamed of them selves.

The Chinese have a magical way of expressing themselves don’t you
agree, the line above is just one. I have just read the above, blimey
sound quite desperate, I am not quite that yet, all I know I feel it
would be a pleasure to meet you.

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 UPDATE – MARCH DATE FOR LONDON ~ 26-29th, 2009

PS I never see clients on the same day they call so an advance booking is essential (even in Plymouth).

PPS Of course, when I say boys, I mean anyone over 30 – no upper limit ;)

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New clients, please note that I am only seeing new clients after receiving an initial email with a bit of info about you – just so that I can determine that we ‘click’.  Unfortunately, I cannot see any new clients without this info.  Please check my ‘contact me’ page for full details.

So, how has my new time structure been working?  Very well!  I wish I had done it ages ago.  I can’t tell you how much nicer it is to spend 2 hours in someone’s delightful company, and also how much more sensual it is!  A very seductive and passionate date with a flirty build up and quality ‘getting to know you’ time – bliss!

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